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Long-Distance Relationship : Stay Connected.

Being A Parent is a job that will provide you with every emotion under the sun, but it's the most important job you will have. Learning how to raise and train your children properly is very important because of their future. The more knowledge and information you have, including understanding what your kids is going through at different stages, the more successful you'll be at being a parent.

You can make your disciplinary attempts far more effective, by trying to be able to shift the focus of your phrases from only highlighting the infant's wrongdoing to using positive language. Children who are repeatedly criticized, have a natural tendency to resist self-control, which in turn, leads to increased instances of fits, discipline problems and also poor conduct.

You shouldn't be afraid to take some time out of the day for yourself. Being a parent is a tense job. Children are very responsive to the moods and perceptions of their parents, and if you become irritable or unhappy, they will also become unhappy. Satisfied children start with a happy parent.

Being around your children a lot can be very stressful. Make sure you take break for you. Plan a dinner night out with a good friend, go for a prolonged walk to go to the movies on your own. That little time away will probably be enough for your to recharge and be the best parent you will be.

Here's more on long distance relationship picture ideas check out ptiturl.com/ While experiencing a divorce with younger children, it is important to give them only the information that's necessary for them to understand. Zero excess information should be given to the young children or it may hurt their impression from the parent. Your kids should not feel any effect of their mother and father divorce, even though they always do.

Again, bringing up a child is difficult, especially if you are feeling frustrated and also overwhelmed. But, if you can go ahead and take information provided in this article after which apply it to the situation at home with your individual child or children, you are sure to be a little closer to that you would like with regards to your being a parent objectives and goals.
Statistics say that long-distance relationships hardly ever last. After all, how can you create and sustain a relationship along with someone you rarely discover? If you are in a long-distance relationship, there could be an answer to those dismal stats. You can stay closer and revel in a more intimate relationship by expressing quotes. Not just any quotes, but ones that entice the heart and reinforce your love for each other.

This is very easy to accomplish, via email, on a daily basis. Don't merely send a quote on a special event, but every day, to let the one you love know that you care and you're simply thinking of them. Of course, this won't replace talking on the phone or even seeing each other in person, nonetheless it can bridge the gap in between those times.

If the thought of mailing daily emails seems somewhat daunting, try making up any journal or scrapbook along with daily readings on them. After that, send them to your partner so they will have something physical to think about every day. You can make it as imaginative as you like, and add poems, pictures, drawings, or doodles to make it more personal. You can even add pictures of you in your brand-new outfit!

There is a myriad of quotes that you can choose from, depending on your current relationship and your personalities. You are able to pick fun quirky quotations, or sentimental, serious estimates. Or choose a mixture of the two types. The possibilities are limitless. All you need to do is use your imagination.

How will these quotes bring you closer to your significant other? For one thing, your mate will imagine you every day, as they see the quote you have sent to them. They will not only think of anyone, but will remember the good times and also special occasions that you shared with each other. They will come to look forward every day to looking at their email address and wondering what the subsequent quote is going to be. Once they look at quote, they will be more more likely to get in touch with you. This entices more conversations, so you can learn more about each other, and create new thoughts. It may even precipitate an improvised visit!

You can even send all of them motivational and inspirational rates if you sense that your companion is lonely, feeling glowing blue, or sick. A simple internet search will get you hundreds of quotes that you could choose from to make sure you capture the correct mood and communicate precisely what you are feeling
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Glenn Langohr Speaking to 100 Students in Professor Reiter’s Criminal Justice Class About Prison Life and His Books

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Professor Reiter read and gave Glenn Langohr’s prison book Pelican Bay Riot a five star review on Amazon. After, she interviewed him and he spoke to her class. Speaking as a guest Lecturer, Glenn Langohr explained why solitary confinement is torture and how there isn’t a court of law involved in determining who goes to solitary and how inmates can get out. To check out Glenn’s complete list of drug war and prison books in print, kindle and audio book go here-http://www.amazon.com/-/e/B00571NY5A

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"This book does not glamorize prison life but rather accurately reports on the cruel reality, which may shock and frighten many readers. The author skillfully makes the point that the general public has more awareness for and more compassion for caged dogs than for prisoners. He also reaches through the bars and describes how the guards are organized into gangs and other criminal enterprises." JT Kalnay Attorney 

And ex-con Langohr can describe the hell of life inside better than any other writer. His vivid passages on just surviving in prison describe a nightmare we'd rather not know about.

He compares the plight of abandoned dogs, locked and horribly mistreated in rows of cages in animal shelters, to California prison inmates, locked and abused in the same cages.
Not a book for the faint of heart. We who sleep peacefully in our beds at night, unaware of the savagery going on behind prison walls, can only thankfully say: "There, but for the grace of God, go I." John South, American Media

For Glenn Langohr's complete list of books in print, kindle and audio book in the U.S. go here~ http://www.amazon.com/-/e/B00571NY5A For the U.K. go here~ http://www.amazon.co.uk/-/e/B00571NY5A

Available for interviews and reviews at rollcallthebook@gmail.com http://www.audiobookprisonstories.com

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Glenn Langohr: The Path Into Solitary Confinement in Prison is Wide and the Path Out is Narrow

Glenn Langohr: The Path Into Solitary Confinement in Prison is Wide and the Path Out is Narrow. Glenn Langohr spent over 10 years in some of California’s worst prisons on drug charges, with 4 years in solitary before turning it into research as a writer and expert on prison culture. For a complete list of his drug war and prison thrillers in audio go here- http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=glenn+langohr%27s+audio+books You can also download the books to your phone, tablet or computer in minutes for free and buy them in print as well here- http://www.amazon.com/-/e/B00571NY5A Image

The path into solitary confinement is wide for this reason. We have to many laws and send to many people to prison these days. It used to be, in the 1980′s, that you only went to prison for murder, rape and robbery for the most part. Tough on crime political platforms and the drug war took over and now we are paying the price with a prison population that is exploding at the seams. Image

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To expand further, now that we send people to prison for poverty crimes like stealing to survive “Petty theft”, and not being able to pay for probationary costs, and for being addicted to drugs, we have an overburdened prison system that frankly, has a lot of mental issues. Imagine being in prison as a drug addict or an orphan of poverty, on a packed prison yard, where the inmates are comprised of every race, color and creed. Now mix in hundreds of different street gangs and some predators. But please don’t forget to add in a percentage of outright mental cases. Add all of that up and you have a recipe for violence, the slippery slope into solitary. This is where you have to look deeper. As an inmate trying to fit in, and avoid that violence in a predatory environment, one of the easiest masks to put on is in the form of tattoos. Human beings often enter the prison system as innocent, young drug addicts, and out of fear, try to fit in by blasting their bodies with ink to look formidable. This is the main reason that the path out of solitary is narrow. Since the path into solitary confinement and the path out aren’t regulated by a court of law, dubious evidence is used that has to do with certain tattoos meaning certain things. Other dubious evidence is second hand information from other prisoners, and the one that hurts my heart the most, self admission. ImageImage

What most people don’t understand is that as a new arrival to a prison, the prison administration has to run a check to clear the inmate for mainline population on the “Big Yard”. During this process the inmate is under the microscope like an insect under a magnifying glass. He or she is asked questions like, ‘What gang do you run with? What do they call you? Do you have any enemies?’ These questions make a new inmate feel like joining a gang is the answer! A great percentage of lost misfits pass the tipping point and claim something. In my case being a White inmate they asked, ‘Are you a peckerwood or skin head?’ I saw the verbal bait on a hook and responded, can’t I just be a White man without any affiliation? For those who take the bait and claim where they’re from in the form of initials to their county like S.J.C, for San Juan Capistrano, just gave someone’s pen the power to keep them self in solitary forever. Image
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For Glenn Langohr's complete list of books in print, kindle and audio book in the U.S. go here~ http://www.amazon.com/-/e/B00571NY5A For the U.K. go here~ http://www.amazon.co.uk/-/e/B00571NY5A

Available for interviews and reviews at rollcallthebook@gmail.com http://www.audiobookprisonstories.com

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An Interview With Drug War And Prison Author Glenn Langohr

What’s the worst nightmare you’ve ever had? -I am blessed with the ability to fly in my dreams. The act rarely happens, but when it does, it is so awesome and vivid, like I really can fly. When I am able to fly in my dreams, it happens night after night, but eventually, I stop being able to. When that happens I have bad dreams of impending doom where I’m being chased and have to remember how to fly. Image

Can you tell us a little bit about yourself? —-I trust God and love Jesus. Before I started writing I ran away from a broken home at 13 years old. I got into some reckless behavior and experimented with drugs. That turned into selling them and 10 years later that turned into organized crime charges. I spent 10 years in prison with 4 years in solitary confinement. From a cell, I started writing drug war and prison books. I was released from prison in 2008 and started a publishing company, http://www.lockdownpublishing.com , and published my first novel, Roll Call, A True Crime Prison Story of Corruption and Redemption. Since then I published Upon Release From Prison, Race Riot, Lock Up Diaries, Gladiator, Underdog and Prison Riot. I married my dream girl, Sanette, who plays Annette in one of my novels. Most recently, I learned how to narrate my own books and started http://www.audiobookprisonstories.com I believe what Jesus said in the Bible, that when you are helping the least fortunate, you are doing God’s work. 
 
What do you do when you are not writing? —–Part of my publishing company’s mission is to help other prisoners turn their lives around through writing and art. I write a lot of prisoners and have received some amazing stories and art work. I also had the opportunity to speak to 100 students at the University of California Irvine in a Criminal Justice class about prison life and how solitary confinement is cruel and unusual punishment as it intersects with the 8th Amendment. Image
Do you have a day job as well? —-I work part time in a restaurant. 
When did you first start writing and when did you finish your first book? —-I started writing from a prison cell in solitary confinement in 2002. It took me 7 years to perfect my drug war novel Roll Call. Image
How did you choose the genre you write in? —–The genre chose me. The drug war and prison life are gritty, true life entertainment. Plus the spiritual aspects of good versus evil in characters on both sides of the law make for a great plot line. Image
Where do you get your ideas? —-Almost all of my ideas are based on life experiences. In some cases, I paint with the true colors of life on a fictional landscape. 
 
Do you ever experience writer’s block, if so, how do you deal with it? ——I do experience writers block at times. Usually during sections of the book that are in a transition from one scene to another. When that happens, I stress out and pace back and forth. It really helps! I start seeing the scene come to life in my imagination and run back to the computer. 
Do you work with an outline, or just write? —--I just write. But I always keep in mind that a story has a beginning, middle and end. 
Is there any particular author or book that influenced you in any way either growing up or as an adult? —–First and foremost, the Bible. The stories have the perfect balance of God over evil and how He uses imperfect characters. A lot of other authors have shaped my writing style. My books are similar to James Patterson’s in that I have fast moving scenes and short chapters. Image
 
How do you market your work? What avenues have you found to work best for your genre?—— Marketing is an art I would rather have someone else do for me! I found that getting big name reviews are a great selling tool. I went after Nielson Media’s review service, Kirkus Discoveries for my first novel Roll Call and got, “A harrowing, down-and-dirty depiction–sometimes reminiscent of Steven Soderbergh’s Traffic–of America’s war on drugs, by former dealer and California artist Langohr. Locked up for a decade on drugs charges and immersed in both philosophical tomes and modern pulp thrillers, Langohr penned Roll Call. A vivid, clamorous account of the war on drugs. –Kirkus Discoveries, Nielsen Business Media, 770 Broadway, N.Y Yk For my book Underdog I went after John South from American Media to get- “In his latest novel, “Underdog,” Glenn Langohr takes B.J. back into the dreaded Supermax at Pelican Bay, California’s toughest prison. At first he’s just fighting to survive, hopelessly outnumbered by Mexican and black gang members, but then he goes back to try and help his friend, still inside, ferociously battling to change the penal system.

And ex-con Langohr can describe the hell of life inside better than any other writer. His vivid passages on just surviving in prison describe a nightmare we’d rather not know about.
He compares the plight of abandoned dogs, locked and horribly mistreated in rows of cages in animal shelters, to California prison inmates, locked and abused in the same cages.
Not a book for the faint of heart. We who sleep peacefully in our beds at night, unaware of the savagery going on behind prison walls, can only thankfully say: “There, but for the grace of God, go I.” Image

For Race Riot I went after TV Producer and author Phillip Doran to get,  ”A raw, breathless descent through the inner circle of the California Penal Hell. Fraught with detail that only someone who’s been there could know.”  I use all the social media sites and produce a lot videos and pictures. I document things like radio interviews or speaking at the University, to build credibility. I use prison art to represent the culture and flavor. 

 
Can you tell us about your upcoming book?——– During my prison sentence, I really battled with giving my life completely to God, and surviving in prison through brute force and my own will power. I’m waiting for God to show me how to write it. 
What has been the toughest criticism given to you as an author? What has been the best compliment?—– I have gotten a few bad reviews from ex prison guards but I’ve also gotten some good reviews from law enforcement as well. I love getting great reviews from lawyers and Professors.
 
Do you have any advice to give to aspiring writers? Do it because you love it. Don’t do it for money, it’s a lot of work! 
 
Is there anything that you would like to say to your readers and fans? I would like to thank all my fans and readers for the reviews and feedback! A special shout out to my U.K. readers for making Race Riot number 1 in three categories for 3 months! 
Glenn Langohr’s books are available in print, kindle and audio book and are on sale and Free for prime members. Amazon author page in the U.S.  http://www.amazon.com/-/e/B00571NY5A Author page in the U.Khttp://www.amazon.co.uk/-/e/B00571NY5A Link to all of Glenn Langohr’s audio books- http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=glenn+langohr%27s+audio+books

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While in Prison on Drug Charges, Glenn Langohr Spent 4 Years in Solitary Where He Wrote Books.

While in Prison on Drug Charges, Glenn Langohr Spent 4 Years in Solitary Where He Wrote Books. As a runaway from a broken home, Glenn Langohr reflected on his bad choices in the drug world from a cell in solitary where he turned it into writing books. 

With nothing else to do in a prison cell for 22 hours a day, Glenn Langohr wrote drug war and prison books. For a complete list of his books in print, kindle and audio book to listen to like a movie, go here- http://www.amazon.com/-/e/B00571NY5A If you purchase a book make sure you email Glenn at rollcallthebook@gmail.com and he will gift out a book.

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Glenn Langohr started solitary confinement in the county jail in the modules where inmates only come out of there cells for 2 hours a day. In prison he was sent to solitary for riots and investigations. He states, ”It is very hard to avoid any violence in prison where the isn’t much rehabilitation. People with mental issues, drug and alcohol issues interact with gangs and people just trying to survive and the ingredients are toxic. In prison every inch of space is decided over and often fought over, like who can use which tables, showers, space on the yard, work out bars etc.”

The first novel Glenn Langohr published when he got out of prison in 2008 was Roll Call, A True Crime Prison Story of Corruption and Redemption. Kirkus Discoveries Nielson Media related Langohr’s novel to the movie Traffic along with other accolades. Glenn Langohr has since published 7 other books that are selling well and getting great reviews. See his complete list on Amazon in print, kindle and audio book. Check out his audio book, Lock Up Diaries  here- http://tinyurl.com/lockupdiaries

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For Glenn Langohr's complete list of books in print, kindle and audio book in the U.S. go here~ http://www.amazon.com/-/e/B00571NY5A For the U.K. go here~ http://www.amazon.co.uk/-/e/B00571NY5A

Available for interviews and reviews at rollcallthebook@gmail.com http://www.audiobookprisonstories.com

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